Kindness · connection · community

Meet your people in real life

The Gay Agenda is a social + events app for the LGBTQ+ community. No swiping — you meet people by showing up to real events near you.

Free to download · iOS & Android

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🏳️‍🌈The Gay Agenda

Events near you

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Queer Brunch Club

Sat · 11am · 14 going

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Open Mic Night

Fri · 8pm · 9 going

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Pride Volleyball

Sun · 2pm · 22 going

RSVP

Why it’s different

Not another dating-app clone. It’s built to get you out the door and into your community — safely.

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Real events, not endless swiping

You meet people by showing up. Browse community events near you, RSVP, and actually get out the door — no profiles to swipe, no games.

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Built-in trust & safety

A trust score and mandatory post-event feedback keep things kind. New folks get a friendly “New” badge until they’ve attended, and blocking actually hides your events from people you block.

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Messaging that respects you

DMs and group chats with mute, one-sided delete (iMessage-style), and read receipts. Make plans, find your people, keep the chats you want.

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By and for the community

Warm, queer-affirming, and playful — down to the hidden mini-games on your profile. Kindness, connection, community, for real.

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Make friends, not matches

Add friends, see who’s going, and turn a one-time event into a regular crew. The point is showing up together.

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Your data, your call

Download a full copy of your own data anytime, and control exactly what’s shared. Privacy isn’t an afterthought.

How it works

1

Download & say hi

Grab the app, set up a simple profile, and tell us roughly where you are.

2

Find an event

Browse what’s happening nearby — meetups, nights out, games, community gatherings.

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Show up & connect

RSVP, go, meet people IRL. Leave feedback after, and your crew grows from there.

Also for organizers

Run an inclusive rec league

Commissioners can open public registration, take payments with Stripe, and manage rosters, schedules, and scores — all from the web.

See the league manager →

Ready to show up?

Download The Gay Agenda and find your next event today.